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☃️ December Newsletter ☃️
Winding Down, Lifting Up

As we reach the final month of the year, we’re taking a moment to reflect on the strength, love, and resilience that continue to shape our Pflag Durham Region community. December invites us to pause and honour how far we’ve come—through advocacy, education, support, and the countless moments of care shown to one another.

This season can be joyful, complicated, or anything in between. No matter how you experience the month ahead, please know that you are part of a community that sees you, values you, and holds space for you. We’re here to support all journeys through gender identity, gender expression, and sexual orientation—this month and every month.

As we wrap up the year, we’re excited to share updates, resources, and reflections from across our programs. Thank you for being part of our mission to build a Durham Region that embraces and celebrates its vibrant diversity.

Wishing you warmth, connection, and gentle moments as the year comes to a close.

World AIDS Day:
Uniting to End the Epidemic

Observed every year on December 1, World AIDS Day is a time to reflect, remember, and renew our commitment to ending HIV/AIDS. It honors those lost, supports those living with HIV, and raises awareness about prevention, testing, and treatment. Since its first observance in 1988, the day has become a global symbol of solidarity and action. Tremendous progress has been made — modern treatments allow people with HIV to live long, healthy lives — yet stigma, inequality, and lack of access to care persist. Awareness and education remain vital in stopping misinformation and encouraging testing. Everyone can take part: wear a red ribbon, get tested, support HIV organizations, and speak out against stigma. World AIDS Day is more than remembrance; it’s a call to unite in compassion, equality, and hope — to ensure everyone, everywhere, has access to the care, respect, and understanding they deserve. Together, we can end the AIDS epidemic.

Events Calendar:

Please see the Events Calendar on our website for the most up to date events in the Region.

To submit an event: Click Here

Dates of Significance:

  • Dec 1: World AIDS Day

  • Dec 8: Pansexual Pride Day

  • Dec 10: Human Rights Day

🩷💛🩵Celebrating Pan Joy: What Pansexual Pride Day Means🩷💛🩵

Every year on December 8, Pansexual Pride Day offers a chance to pause and honour a beautiful, often-overlooked piece of our community: pan identity. Pansexuality — sometimes shortened to “pan” — simply means that a person can be attracted to others regardless of gender. For many folks, pan means “love the person, not the label.”

This isn’t about attraction to “everyone,” but rather about openness to all genders. A pan person’s attraction can include cis men, cis women, transgender folks, non-binary people — anyone.

Recognizing pan identity is important because, historically, pan people and pan experiences have faced misunderstanding or erasure — even within broader LGBTQ+ conversations. Pansexual Pride Day helps shine light on pan voices, make space for pan stories, and remind us all that attraction doesn’t have to fit a box.

Pan Visibility in Canada: A Few Names

Representation matters. When people see themselves in others, it can be powerful. Here are a couple of Canadians who have publicly identified as pan or queer/pan — and whose visibility helps create space for others:

Natasha Negovanlis — Actor, writer, and singer (best known for the web-series Carmilla). Natasha has openly identified as queer, pansexual or bisexual.

Bif Naked — Canadian musician and writer. Bif has spoken openly about being pansexual.

Kaitlyn Alexander — Actor and creator (also from Carmilla fame). While sexuality labels evolve, Kaitlyn’s queer identity and presence in queer media help broaden awareness and acceptance.

Their openness shows that pan sexuality has always been — and will continue to be — part of our diverse fabric.

Why This Matters — For All of Us

Language and Understanding: For some, “pan” feels like the word that truly fits. Recognizing pansexuality helps people find language for their experiences.

Inclusivity: Pan means inclusivity. Celebrating pan identities helps make space for people of all genders — cis, trans, non-binary, and more.

Solidarity: By raising visibility and honouring pan experiences, we uplift a part of our community that still faces misunderstanding.

Want to Learn More?

If you’d like to dig deeper or find community and resources around pan identity, here are some helpful places to start:

The website of the Canadian Pride Historical Society — they share educational articles and awareness-day info about pan-sexuality and panromanticism.

Local LGBTQ+ support networks and community centres (including through the work of PFLAG Durham Region itself!)

Online communities and forums where pan people share stories, resources, and support — a good way to connect, learn, or just feel seen.

As we celebrate this Pansexual Pride Day, let’s keep the spotlight shining on pan voices, pan stories, pan lives. Let’s build a community where every identity matters — and where everyone has a place.

Current pflag Durham Region Programs:

  • Transitions (16 years and up)

  • pflag YA (18 and up)

  • Teens & Tweens (10-17 years)

  • Parent Group

  • Family Transformations

Upcoming Programs:

  • Book Club (Teen and Adult)

  • Yoga Night

  • D&D

Community Programs & Resources

While we make changes and develop new programs, please explore some of the resources our community partners are offering for youth and family supports.

DCHC - Gender Journeys

  • The 9-week Gender Journeys program is a place to explore your gender and connect with others who are also on a gender journey. It is a peer-facilitated program for ages 10-14 and 15+.

  • For more information: contact anagel@durhamchc.ca or call 905-428-1212 ext. 2239

    DCHC - Colours Youth Group

  • 2SLGBTQI Youth in Grade 9 to 12 are invited to join the Colours Program running once a month. The program will be in-person at the DCHC Pickering location and will feature interactive activities!

  • Food and snacks are available. Registration is required.

  • To learn more or register, please contact Alyssa at: 289-404-1665

    DCHC - Gender Affirming Chats

  • A space where folks that don’t identify with the gender they were assigned at birth or are questioning their gender can connect with each other. This group will alternate between discussion topics, and a social space to play games, do some art and get to know each other.

  • Where? Alternating between in person at DCHC Pickering Site (17-1450 Kingston Rd.) and virtual

  • To register: Contact Declan to schedule a short intake call. Email gendercare@durhamchc.ca. Call or Text: 905-213-1207

    DCHC - Family TRANSformations

  • Family TRANSformations is a support and resource group for parents/caregivers of people who identify as trans, non-binary, or gender-expansive. Registration is required.

  • For more information, contact Melanie at mschranz@durhamchc.ca

    ACDR - One Voice

  • One Voice is a collective created to meet the health and social service gaps experienced by queer and trans people of colour aged 13 to 29.

  • For more information, contact ​Nathan Rhodes-Truppe, Youth Outreach Coordinator at nathaniel@aidsdurham.com or call 905-576-1445 ext 518

    ACDR - MSM

  • MSM works with and for gay, bi and other men who have sex with men (msm) by providing relevant knowledge, skills, resources, social activities and events as well as promoting community building partnerships.

  • For more information, contact ​Carlos Castle, MSM Outreach Coordinator at carlos@aidsdurham.com or call 905-576-1445 ext 512.

To add a community event to this list, please email our secretary at: secretary@pflagdurhamregion.com

Thank You to our Donors & Sponsors

  • Digistrat Inc.

  • Darla Jones

  • Wendy Ridding

Interested in Volunteering

pflag Durham Region is run on volunteer-power: people helping people. Join our volunteer force to keep our programs running!

Questions or Concerns:

If you have any questions or concerns for our board, please email inquiries@pflagdurhamregion.com and you will be directed to the board member that has the answers you are looking for.

Pflag Durham Region

1801 Wentworth St #8, Whitby, ON L1N 8M2, Canada

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